David Fleming

David Fleming, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, teacher, and friend, passed away surrounded by the love of his family. Known as a natural leader with a kind heart and good-natured spirit, David brought joy to those around him with his humor, style, love of music, and unmistakable presence.

  He was born to Doris Fleming and Edward Fleming in Albany, NY, on October 11, 1946. From an early age, David knew his calling. As a fourth grader in Colonie, NY, he discovered his passion for music and set his sights on becoming a music teacher—a dream he fulfilled with dedication and talent. David pursued his education at the Crane School of Music in Potsdam, NY, as a trumpet major, where he earned both his Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees. It was there he met the love of his life, Marsha Feeney of Canisteo, NY. They married in 1969 and shared 57 years of love, adventure, and deep partnership, creating a life rich in family, friendships, travel, and time on the water.

He is survived by his wife, Marsha, daughter, Megan Deming, and grandsons Thomas and Nicholas of Auburn, NY; his son, Jonathan Fleming, and wife, Kerry, and grandsons James and Daniel of Waterbury, VT; and his sister, Nancy Fleming Asher, and her husband, Larry, of South Carolina. He also leaves behind many cherished cousins, nieces and nephews, as well as extended family, including sisters-in-law Bonnie (d. 2025) and Dick Mider, Kate Engler, Dianne, and Raymond VanPelt. David’s legacy is rooted in leadership, kindness, a love of music, and a strong sense of family.

He taught music at Mynderse Academy in Seneca Falls for nine years, inspiring countless students, before becoming a part-owner of Central Music (American Music) and later working with Guitar Center to connect musicians across the country.

  In retirement, David continued to share his musical gifts, playing trumpet in community and college bands and leading big band groups. He remained active in the music community, serving on boards including the Syracuse Symphony and the Central NY Jazz Band. David also recently played trumpet in the Syracuse University Brass Ensemble.

  Calling hours will be held on Friday, April 3rd, from 5-7 pm, and the funeral will be Saturday, April 4th, at 11 am, at Pettigrass Funeral Home, 196 Genesee Street, Auburn, NY 13021.

  In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in David’s honor to The Leukemia Society.

  David’s life was one of passion, generosity, and music. His legacy will live on in the many lives he touched and the family who loved him deeply.

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